Now look, I'm no saint I've been around the block a few times, I've killed a kitten or three and I know all the characters in Desperate Housewives. I know I was to blame for them reacting this way but what did I actually do though? In all those situations I decided I wanted to move on and after the decision was made that was the reaction I got. Now granted I didn't always do this in the nicest possible way but don't I have the right to do this? Shouldn't I be able to move on if I don't think this person was for me? and If it were in reverse would that type of behavior be acceptable coming from me? I bet you it wouldn't. No woman likes a bitchy man and men have been fucking up women for this type of shit for centuries that's why restraining orders were invented and the AAAEW was formed (Association for Angry Ass Empowered Women =) ). As a matter of fact if any one of these women wanted to leave me in any form or fashion the only acceptable reaction I could give would be to... "relax my batty". Yup, no phone calls begging back, no turning up at their mother's house to threaten their new relationship, no angry emails, texts or facebook posts. I certainly couldn't attack their new boyfriend or slap them in the face if they came to say hi to me at a party and there is no way that I could call their mother's house 83 times in 2 days and put down the phone. Hell no! I mean it's ok to be upset or disappointed, there's an acceptable grace period for those moaning a relationship lost but as soon as you go to harm a person because they are no longer with you... fuck that YOU DON'T LOVE THEM. You only love them AS LONG AS THEY'RE WITH YOU! Of course I'm not talking about women who've been fucked over and left for dead. If he gave your SARS OR Salmonella and ran off with big butt suzie-Q then you have the right to run him over with a truck. However, if he just decided to leave you and you now want to destroy his life then I've got a big problem with that because If you really loved that person like you said you did then you would always want to see them happy, you would always want the best for them, you'd help them in anyway you could even if their new girlfriend was Snooki from Jersey Shore. As soon you want to change their mind, try to make them be with you or anything of the sort you've stepped over the line. What is it going to achieve anyway? If someone wants to be someplace else let them go, there's really nothing you can do. If you make them come back against their will it's not going to be genuine and anything they put you through now, in my opinion; serves you right. People make me laugh though, I've seen so much of us put significant amounts of time and energy into making someone else's life difficult screwing over everyone involved or associated even mess up our own children in the process. It seems so easy to harm, get back, strike back and hate when it would do everybody the world of good to be happy for each other even if you're not together.
End of Rant.
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I've been wanting to post the above for some years now so I put it up and made some changes, additions (The original was a bit distasteful). Sadly it probably doesn't pack as much of a punch now when I originally started to write it, I was furious but finishing it off today I just look back and smile. Apologies in advance if reading it is difficult I know it's a bit disjointed as I started to write this in 2007! :-o time waits for no man.
